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Thoughts, observations and things we can't stop thinking about.

4 September 2026 · 8 min read

We need to talk about sex

I have been with my husband for more than 20 years. Yet, until very recently, there were things about sex I had never told him.

27 August 2026 · 6 min read

Every relationship runs on a private list of subjects that have been quietly retired. Here's what happens to the list over time.

12 August 2026 · 5 min read

We have a vocabulary for the dramatic part and almost none for the long administrative middle.

30 July 2026 · 7 min read

People will tell you about their marriage before they'll tell you what they earn.

5 February 2026 · 5 min read

Can you be genuinely happy for someone while also being absolutely raging that it wasn't you?