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Why Aren't We Talking About This?
Conversations about the messy, uncomfortable and very human bits of life.

Topic

Loss

The absence that stays, in whatever form it takes.

Conversations

  • Episode 27 · 15 October 2026

    Baby Loss

    What do you actually say to someone whose baby has died, when nothing you say can make it better?

  • Episode 12 · 19 February 2026

    The Messiness of Grief

    There is no right way to grieve. So why are we so convinced we're doing it wrong?

  • Episode 06 · 11 December 2025

    Grief at Xmas

    Christmas doesn't make grief disappear. Sometimes it turns the volume up.

Writing

  • 15 October 2026

    What do you actually say when a baby dies?

    There is no sentence that fixes it. Grief coach Tanya Wilkinson on saying a baby's name, the grief Olympics, and the silence surrounding termination for medical reasons.