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Why Aren't We Talking About It?
Conversations about the messy, uncomfortable and very human bits of life.

Topic

Sex

Desire, mismatch, boredom, curiosity and the enormous gap between what people do and what people admit to.

Conversations

  • Episode 21 · 3 September 2026

    Sex and pleasure

    Why do we expect ourselves, and our partners, to just know how sex is supposed to work?

Writing

  • 4 September 2026

    We need to talk about sex

    I have been with my husband for more than 20 years. Yet, until very recently, there were things about sex I had never told him.