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Why Aren't We Talking About It?
Conversations about the messy, uncomfortable and very human bits of life.

Topic

Relationships

The unspoken contracts, quiet disappointments and small brave moments that hold people together or pull them apart.

Conversations

  • Episode 21 · 3 September 2026

    Sex and pleasure

    Why do we expect ourselves, and our partners, to just know how sex is supposed to work?

  • Episode 12 · 19 February 2026

    The Messiness of Grief

    There is no right way to grieve. So why are we so convinced we're doing it wrong?

  • Episode 11 · 12 February 2026

    Male Infertility

    When fertility is tied to masculinity, what happens when your body doesn't do what you thought it would?

  • Episode 07 · 15 January 2026

    The BIG Question

    Will I give these people one more year of my life?

Writing

  • 4 September 2026

    We need to talk about sex

    I have been with my husband for more than 20 years. Yet, until very recently, there were things about sex I had never told him.